The Boomerang Effect

“You shall come to whoever will be the kohen in those days, and you shall say to him: ‘I declare today to Hashem, your G-d, that I have come to the Land that Hashem swore to our forefathers to give to us.’” (Devarim 26:3)

Every year the farmers of the Land of Israel were required to bring a portion of the first fruits as an offering of thanks to G-d for the bounty He provided. This small token of appreciation was brought to the Temple and given to the kohen. Then the person who brought his bikurim (first fruits) was required to make a special declaration of thanks to the Alm-ghty, beginning with our Patriarch Yaakov’s sojourn with the wicked Lavan and chronicling all the kindnesses G-d showered upon us, including the Exodus from Egypt and the conquering of the Holy Land.

This declaration provided untold benefit to the one who brought his basket of fruit to the kohen. A parable crystallizes the effect of this mitzvah on the one performing the deed.

Once there was a man who had two sons. He loved to spoil them with gifts and treats. One son always kissed his father and thanked him for the presents he received. When the father saw the child’s appreciative reaction, he was filled with a warm feeling of love and was prompted to give more and more to the child.

The other son reacted differently to the gifts. Whenever his father gave him something new, the child would ask for “the better one like my friends have” or would take the item and run off without showing appreciation to his generous and loving father. The father, of course, was disappointed. He was not at all anxious to give more to the child.

The blessings we receive from our Creator are the treats the children received from their loving parent. The wise individual is he who realizes that
G-d has no obligation to His creations and that everything one receives is a true gift of kindness on His part. Therefore, the wise person responds to Hashem’s bounty with praises and thanks to his Benefactor.

The declaration that accompanies the bikurim begins with the horrible situation that our Patriarch Yaakov had to suffer while living with his father-in-law, Lavan. We complete the declaration with thanks for granting us ownership of the Land of Israel. When a person contrasts the suffering with the pleasure, the feelings of thanks that result are heartfelt and joyous. When Hashem sees the sincere, complete thanks that spring forth from the Jew’s heart, He is prompted (so to speak) to give more and more to His loving child.

The verses continue: “You shall be glad with all the goodness that Hashem, your G-d, has given you…” The boomerang effect occurs — one sends thanks and G-d sends more for which to be thankful.

May we all see clearly all the good with which we are blessed and thank our Heavenly Father in a sincere manner that will prompt His loving generosity.

Shabbat shalom.


 

Rabbi Raymond Beyda serves in the Sephardic Community in Brooklyn, N.Y. He lectures to audiences all over the world. He has distributed over 500,000 recorded lessons free of charge. He is author of the book 1 Minute With Yourself: A Minute a Day to Self-Improvement, Sephardic Press, 2008.