Personal Encounter Between Two Buchenwald Survivors:
Rabbi Yisroel Meir Lau and Rabbi Yosef Friedenson

R-L: Rabbi Yosef Friedenson, Harav Yisrael Meir Lau and Rabbi Yosef Chaim Golding during the meeting that took place at Rabbi Friedenson’s home.
R-L: Rabbi Yosef Friedenson, Harav Yisrael Meir Lau and Rabbi Yosef Chaim Golding during the meeting that took place at Rabbi Friedenson’s home.

In January of 1945, Rabbi Yosef Friedenson, after suffering through the horrors of Auschwitz, Oranienburg, Sachsenhausen and Ohrdruff, was brought to Buchenwald. There he met Naphtali Lau, a fellow inmate, who was the son of Harav Moshe Chaim Lau, Rav of Piotrekow. Naphtali revealed to Yossel that his seven-and-a-half year old brother was also in the concentration camp.

A week ago, that “little brother,” who went on to become the Chief Rabbi of Israel, paid a visit to Mr. Friedenson. Harav Yisrael Meir Lau, who now serves as Chief Rabbi of Tel Aviv, walked into Mr. Friedenson’s home on the Upper West Side of Manhattan with a gift in his hand.

“You have no idea what this is,” Rabbi Lau, speaking a classic Yiddish, declared. “I have brought you your friend’s book.”

It was the sefer, Haderech L’kiddush Hashem, based on the writings of Rabbi Lau’s father, and published to mark 70 years since Harav Moshe Chaim Lau, Hy”d, was killed in Treblinka al Kiddush Hashem.

Reb Yossel Friedenson, a preeminent Holocaust historian and longtime editor of Dos Yiddishe Vort, was born and raised in Lodz, located only 46 kilometers from Piotrekow. During the visit he recalled traveling to visit Rabbi Lau’s father at least three times, as well as the Piotrekow Rav’s frequent visits to the Friedenson home.

Reb Yossel’s father, Harav Eliezer Gershon Friedenson, Hy”d, was one of the founders of the Bais Yaakov movement and the editor of the prewar Bais Yaakov Journal. He was one of the most prominent askanim on behalf of Agudas Yisrael.

“Your father was in our house at least ten times,” Reb Yossel reminisced.

Reb Yossel expressed his hope that he would be able to write about the sefer he received in an upcoming edition of Dos Yiddishe Vort.

The fascinating conversation that followed covered a span of topics including the history of Lodz, the time they both spent in Buchenwald, Rabbi Lau’s autobiography and, of course, pre-war Jewish life.

At the conclusion of the visit, Rabbi Lau told him of a moving experience he had with Hagaon Harav Eliezer Schach, zt”l.

“I am a talmid of Harav Schach,” Rabbi Lau related. “The last time I came to visit him, he was 107 years old. I was Chief Rabbi of Israel at the time and he spoke to me like one speaks to a son.

“‘Reb Yisrael Meir, what does He need me for? I don’t see and I don’t hear. The fact that I don’t see, I ask of my grandsons Yissacher Dov or Asher to read aloud from a sefer so I could prepare a shiur for the talmidim in yeshivah, but now that I don’t hear either, I can no longer give shiurim. So what does He need me for on this world?’ Harav Schach asked me.

“‘We need you!’ I told Harav Schach.”

Rabbi Lau then applied the same words to Reb Yossel.

“We need you! The role model that you are, the personality that you are, you don’t need us, but we need you! You should be healthy and well!”

Speaking to Hamodia after the visit, Reb Yossel said that the story of Rabbi Lau is a testament to the eternity of Am Yisrael.

“As a child survivor of Buchenwald, he came to Eretz Yisrael with only a small sack of belongings, and look what he became!” Reb Yossel marveled.